<aside> 👉🏼 Alright, let's dive into the nitty-gritty of starting the conversation about ENM.

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This can be a daunting step for many couples, but trust me, it's worth it.

Here's how to get the ball rolling:

1. Creating a Safe Space for Communication

<aside> 👉🏼 First things first, you need to create a safe and supportive environment for this conversation.

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→ Find a time when you're both relaxed and have plenty of time to talk.

Choose a comfortable setting where you won't be interrupted, and make sure you're both in the right headspace-

to have an open and honest discussion.

2. Addressing Fears and Concerns

<aside> 👉🏼 Now, let's address the elephant in the room: fears and concerns.

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It's natural to have reservations about exploring non-monogamy, so don't be afraid to talk about them.

Share your:

• anxieties,
• worries, and
• hesitations with each other.

Remember, you're in this together, and both your feelings are valid.

3. Finding Common Ground and Shared Goals

<aside> 👉🏼 Finally, let's focus on finding common ground and shared goals.

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• *What are you both hoping to achieve by exploring ENM?
• What are your shared values and aspirations for your relationship?*

Take the time to listen to each other's perspectives and find common ground.