<aside> 👉🏼 Alright, let's get real for a moment.
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Before diving headfirst into the world of ENM, it's essential to-
take a good, hard look at your relationship and ask yourself,
ENM isn’t for everyone. And that’s okay.
But for those that can navigate its complexities, it offers a whole new world of possibilities.
<aside> 1️⃣ First things first, let's talk about the big three:
→ trust, → communication, and → emotional maturity.
These are the pillars that hold any relationship together, whether it's monogamous or non-monogamous.
Take a moment to reflect on how strong these foundations are in your relationship.
→ Are you both open and honest with each other?
→ Can you communicate your needs and feelings without fear of judgment?
And perhaps most importantly-
→ Are you both emotionally mature enough to handle the complexities of non-monogamy?
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<aside> 2️⃣ Next up, let's talk values.
Non-monogamous relationships operate on a different set of principles than traditional monogamous ones.
Take some time to explore your beliefs and attitudes towards:
→ Are you both on the same page when it comes to things like
→ Do you share similar ideas about what constitutes a healthy relationship?
It's essential to make sure your values align before taking the plunge into ENM.
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<aside> 3️⃣ Now, let's talk about desires and boundaries.
It's time to get real about what you both want and need in a relationship.
Sit down together and have a candid conversation about your:
What are you hoping to gain from exploring non-monogamy? What are your limits and boundaries?
This is your chance to lay it all out on the table and make sure you're on the same page.
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